Small Story - Enjoy Life now :)  

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Story Time :

When I was kid, my Mom liked to cook food and every now & then I remember she used to cook for us. One night in particular when she had made dinner after a long hard da at work. 
Mom placed a plat of bread. and extremely burned toast in front of my dad. I was waiting to see if anyone noticed the burnt toast. But Dad just ate his toast and asked me how was my day at school. I dont remember what I told him that night, but I do remember I heard Mom apologizing to dad for burning the toast. And I'll never forget what he said: "Honey, I love burned toast.: Later that night, I went to kiss daddy good night and I asked him ig he really liked his toast burned. He wrapped me in his arms and said "Your momma put in a long hard day at work. today and she was really tired. And besides, A imperfect people I'm not the best at hardly anything, and I forget birthdays and anniversaries just like choosing to celebrate each other;s difference, is one of the most important keys to creating a healthy, growing and lasting relationship. Life is too short to wake up with regrets. Loce the people who treat you right and have compassion for the ones who don't. 
ENJOY LIFE NOW. 
It has an expiry date . :)

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Santa & Banta !!!  

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Put The Glass Down  

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Story Time :

A chemistry professor decided to teach his students a different lesson one day. Holding a glass of water in his hand, he asked the students, “How much do you think this glass of water weighs?” “500 grams!” came a voice from the back. “600,” said another student. “I don’t really know!” said the professor, holding the glass up to make sure everyone could see it. “And unless we weigh it, we won’t know.”

With the glass still in his outstretched hand, the professor continued, “What will happen if I hold it like this for a few minutes?”
“Nothing!” came the reply. “Right, and if I hold it for an hour like this, what might happen?” “Your hand will begin to hurt,” said a student. “Indeed. And what would happen if I held the glass in my hand like this for 24 hours?”
“You would be in tremendous pain,” said one student. “Your hand will probably go numb,” said another. “Your arm will be paralysed and we’ll need to rush you to the hospital!” said a student on the last bench.

“True,” said the professor. “But notice that through all this, the weight of the glass did not change. What then causes the pain?”
The class went quiet. The students seemed puzzled.“What should I do to avoid the pain?” asked the professor. “Put the glass down!” said a student.
“Well said!” exclaimed the professor. “And that’s a lesson I want you to remember. The problems and worries in life are like that glass of water. Think about them for a while and nothing happens. But think about it a bit longer and they begin to hurt. And if you think about them all day long, you will feel paralysed – incapable of doing anything. It’s important to remember to let go of your problems. Remember to put the glass down!”

We may not have been in that classroom that day, but it’s a lesson we would all do well to remember. Put the glass down! Always. It’s not just problems and worries. Sometimes, we feel hurt and betrayed by a friend. And we carry that grudge through our lives. It grows and causes us anguish and pain. Learning to forgive – and forget – is not just good for the other people, it’s great for you. Nelson Mandela spent 27 years in jail and when he was finally freed, you can understand how angry and vengeful he must have felt. But guess what? When he became President, he invited his jailers to be present at the inauguration – in the VIP seats! If he could forgive after 27 years of suffering, surely we can too.

It is the same with our fears too. A failure or an incident in early childhood becomes a deeply entrenched fear over time. Fear of public speaking, fear of Maths, fear of rejection. You name it, and chances are, we have it. Someone gave us that glass to hold when we were little kids – ‘you are clumsy, you are no good, you can’t do it’ - and we have faithfully held on to it all our lives. ‘I can’t’ - becomes a thought that stays in our mind and grows – leading us to complete paralysis.

Time to put the glass down!

The story goes that there was a hardworking man who lived a contented life with his wife and children. Every evening when he returned from work, he’d follow a ritual. Outside the door to his house were three nails. On the first one, he’d put his hat. On the second he’d hang his coat. And on the third nail, he’d unwrap an imaginary turban from his head and ‘put’ it there. A friend happened to see this and enquired what he was putting on the third nail every day.

“Those are my problems, my worries and my anger,” said the man. “I have lots of that at work, but when I come home, I remember to take it off – and leave them outside. I don’t take them home with me.” Maybe you should learn to do that too. Starting today.

Put the glass down. And see the difference!


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And one unknown email !!!!  

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Suddenly one day I saw one email in my inbox. I could not recognized sender though I read it. It is a very nice email could one send !!!  


Whoever, you are Mr/Ms unknown , Thank you for beautiful thing. I will keep those things in my mind. Lets have a look to the email..... 



Hi.
 
Don't be afraid to admit when you know you are wrong.
It is not a sign of weakness, but shows character and responsibility.
Others will respect you for that. Always do the right things,
even when everyone does as they please with no consideration for the
feelings of others. Never compromise your values and
beliefs, even if it means risking ridicule and rejection.
Be true to yourself. Live your own life and don't allow others
to decide what is best for you If you do, you will be unhappy
because you're untrue to yourself. Refuse to run away
from the things that scare you. Confront these situations and
overcome your fears so that you may grow as a person.
Don't compare yourself to others. You are unique special being
and therefore you should express your individuality.
Happiness keeps u Sweet, Trials keep u Strong, Sorrow keeps u
Human, Failure Keeps u Humble, Success keeps u Glowing, But
only God Keeps u Going .
 
Have a Nice Day !!!

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Fun time :)  

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Manmohan Singh to Bush - We are sending Indians to the moon next year.
Bush - Wow! How Many?
Manmohan Singh  - 100
25 - OBC
25 - SC
20 - ST
5 - Handicapped
5 - Sports Persons
5 - Terrorist Affected
5 - Kashmiri Migrants
9 - Politicians
and if possible
1 - Astronnaut

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Thought Of the Day !!!  

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Though of the Day !!!




The worst in Life is "ATTACHMENT". It hurts when you lose it. The best thing in life is "LONELINESS" because it teaches you everything and, when you lose it, you get everything. 


Above sentence is so true. Somewhere I am thankful to loneliness. Becoz of it I have learnt and improved so much. Now I respect each and every person who comes across my life. Now I am more approachable. My fear has gone after talking to new people. I know the value of people. I have become bold and independent. (still more to go though ;) )I have learnt you are the only one who is responsible for your happiness. Its in your hand how you are taking current situation. 

And more over, end of the day, I don’t have any grudge on anyone, even though somebody hurt/ignores me intentionally or unintentionally. That's the best part I have learnt and it gives me so relive. I have leant and still learning more day by day !!! 

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The Capricorn !!!  

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Hello Guys,

I found somewhere about Capricorn. Do you really think I can really relate myself with these characteristics ? Let me know what do you think !!!! 



It is very difficult to define the characteristics profile of a Capricorn girl exactly. She can be the sexy babe on the beach or a scientist sitting in the laboratory, doing experiments that can save mankind. Whatever she is on the outside, when you look inside you will find a girl who looks for security, authority, respect and position. It is an entirely different matter how she seeks to achieve these goals. It may be as the president of a country or as the wife of an ambitious man. She seeks recognition and it doesn't matter how she gets it.

A Capricorn female is like that goat, which has to reach the top of the mountain. It doesn't matter what position she starts and how slowly she walks, she will be at the top much before those, who were running in front of her. She will do it with such subtlety that you wouldn't even know when she crossed all the milestones. She has her aims and ambitions, but they don't come before her family. She can enjoy the role of a wife or a mother as much as that of the CEO of the biggest MNC. However, you will have to provide her with equivalent respect and security.

Almost all the Capricorn women have immaculate etiquettes. They have an inherent sense of social elegance, modesty and conventional look. Though she looks completely calm, composed and balanced, don't think she doesn't have mood swings. She can become really depressed if she thinks that someone has misjudged or ill-treated her. In such a case, she may brood for months at a time. This stems from the fact that she does not feel as secure as she seems to be and fears being ridiculed or laughed at.

It is advisable not to tease a Capricorn girl; she may take it too literally. Though she may pretend otherwise, she seeks as much compliments as the other girls, probably even more. Show her that you appreciate her and make her feel secure. It will help her in opening up and showing her deliberately controlled passion. A Capricorn girl's personality doesn't include the trait of wishful thinking. She sees only those dreams that can be converted into reality. She enters a boat only when she knows that the waters are safe.

She will emphasize heavily on social etiquettes and you never see her serving the guests in anything but crystal cutlery. There will always be something fresh about her beauty and she will never ever be unattractive, even when she is wearing those hair-curlers. A Capricorn female will appear to be extremely confident, but inside she is quite unsure about her appearance. You will have to reassurance her time and again that she is attractive. She will always be honest and will expect the same from you.

At the same time, you will have to respect her family. Remember when you marry a Capricorn woman; you marry her family and relatives too. If ever you criticize her family members, better ensure that the criticism is constructive or she will never forgive you. Her love for you will never prevent her from taking care of her family. The plus point of this attitude is that she will be equally considerate towards your family too and give them the same respect as her own fellows. She will never mind if you cancel your holiday trip to pay for dad's operation.

The home of a Capricorn female will always be sparkling clean, that to with effortless ease. She is a realist and daydreaming is not her idea of passing the time. She has the ability to make even the dullest of surroundings looks warm and attractive, with her earthly passion. She will never stop you from dreaming, as long as there is bread in the house and the dreams have atleast some chances of turning into reality. As a mother, she will teach the kids discipline, economy, practicality, etiquettes and respect for elders. Make her feel loved, protected, needed and cared for and in return, she will support you in realizing your dreams and give you a deep, lasting love!

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